Family, Friends and "Others"?

We know "family and friends," but who are the "others"? To me, they are the ones that are there for me and probably don't know it. Sounds puzzling doesn't it? It may be that person that gives a knowing smile as I struggle and limp along, or someone holding the door as I slowly move in or out. Did I ever think this would one day be me? Never! I'm very thankful for them, the "others" in my life. No, I don't like being slow, but it has happened over time and in doing so, gives me so much more insight and a sense of appreciation. This may not be you, and you don't understand, just yet. I believe in "paying forward" so thank you in advance for all the kindnesses I am being shown.
grandma

To Celebrate Or Not Celebrate Christmas?

Why? Or maybe, why not? It is a designated "holiday", but the question is whether or not we celebrate it, and just "how?," if we do? Do we celebrate it quietly alone, reflecting on just what it means to ourselves individually, or do we join others and be a part of their celebrations? Whichever we choose, it's our choice. Either way, my hope is it's a day of thankfulness for the most precious gift ever given, Our Savior. The gifts we exchange are because of the LOVE we extend to those around us for this priceless gift. In my own mind, I have to stop and think on this as families gather for a yearly celebration with friends and much merriment. Do we celebrate a Savior, or is it something less? Let's rejoice with a celebration of "Christ  the reason for the season"!
Grandma

"T'WAS The Week Before Christmas"

I hope everyone has their shopping for Christmas finished the tree decorated and the assorted things people rush to do. Yes, I finished my shopping today and have 1 gift, on its way, my tracking it says. The few things I purchased are wrapped and ready to distribute. This is going to be one of the years the "thought" will have to go a long way with those receiving gifts from me. I believe it wasteful and not wise to buy just anything so it will be a present. A simple box of chocolates are aways good for me. When I remember the sparse Christmas's I had as a child. I am more than blessed. We were happy even though there were few presents. My dad always bought fruit, nuts and hard candy. That was enough to satisfy us. My older brother and I hung stockings for a few years behind a pot-bellied stove. As the stove heated during the night, candy melted inside the stockings. Finally, one year my mother suggested we leave dinner plates for Santa to put our candy on. That worked much better. A lot of Christmas' have come and gone for me, and along with it a lot of the joy I once knew. My grand daughter now grown and living in her own home, makes me realize how fast time has passed. She and her mother make cookies and candy as part of their gifts to me. That is so special and so good. I hope everyone has someone to give them a gift they have made. Next Sunday will be a day of families and friends getting together, enjoying that time. Wish everyone the best Christmas yet!
Grandma